“I crave to feel more hurt by you. And it’s not that I want you to hurt me, but I know that that is how I’m going to go deep with you and be able to break through my own walls to my heart and love for you. But if I feel hurt by you, I’m going to let you know and take action to stop that.”
This is our number 1 tip to say to any person wanting to get into a deeper relationship with someone. Why?
Every time we have been hurt, we create defensive walls. Those walls get layered more and more throughout our lifetimes, to a point of numbness.
The ONLY way to break these walls down, is to agree to let ourselves feel hurt again. “Why on earth would I want to do that?”
Because that is the ONLY way I’m ever going to have a deeper level relationship with my partner, my family, my friends. “But can I trust these people not to hurt me?”
We can’t. No - we can pretty much guarantee you that they will hurt us again. But, you will have a new setup of rules for yourself and boundaries to apply! To say NO, take action, call out hurt, and demand that your pain be heard and felt. Not only that: the depth of love you felt - remember that first kiss, that first real juicy teenage fall-in-love feeling - RETURNS, albeit in a slightly different way ❤️
Now, who doesn’t want that in their relationships? 😉
BUT
How do I TAKE ACTION? Where do I find my courage to speak up, in the face of conflict, hurt, fear, shame, isolation punishment?
The time is NOW to bring your inner lion OUT TO PLAY.
Learn HOW TO through practical exercises.
YOUR HOSTS
Chris Cheung Chris is a vision building storyteller. He embodies teachings from a long lineage of imagery masters - Lao Tzu, Sun Tzu & Zen masters - Eihei Dogen. He assists others in bringing forth non-dual dreams from the void, transforming imagery into practical milestones. Chris also shares heart-centered inner work, specializing in emotional intimacy and relational artistry, on a path towards embodying wholistic living.
Oraia Marilyn Monraw Mountain and forest lover from birth, Marilyn loves exploring sacred sites all over the planet. The journey back to herself and Spirit began during a breathing exercise in her very first meditation class 12 years ago. Through her own healing journey, she transformed into a spaceholder-navigator with a deep passion for Breathwork, Longevity Tips & Tricks, Urine Therapy, Meditation, Sensuality, Touch and Massage, Energy Work (she is a Seichem-Reiki Master), Light Language, Fasting & Detox, Pranic Living, anything Sun related, Conscious Body Movement, Emotional Intimacy, Relational Artistry and the simplicity of life and human connection. She is currently traveling the world(s) with her beloved Chris, sharing about emotional intimacy and relational artistry.
